Everyone who wakes up each morning at a 7 or above on a pain scale. Everyone who needs memory aids that people with dementia use and you have done every day for months or years. Everyone who hasn't been able to sleep in a decade. Everyone who is caring for a loved one who is suicidally depressed or in chronic pain or has another health issue while they themselves are struggling with the same (because there is nobody else but you and the buck stops here.) For everyone who can't tick off something on their to do list every day despite giving it their all. For everyone letting people down and pushing people away because they don't have the energy to explain why we're doing what we're doing, why we don't call or write, why we don't show up, why we don't have show more progress or change. For everyone doing everything they do with a toddler on the hip, or another adult's responsibilities on top of their own. For those who do everything via text because th